Fashion Jas Dian Nafi

Beberapa waktu lalu sempat terpikir untuk membeli jas guna menghadiri undangan sebagai nara sumber seminar dari lembaga pemerintah. Tapi kemudian ingat bahwa sebenarnya koleksi jas di rumah sudah lumayan banyak. Jadi tinggal cari saja di lemari, meskipun tercecer di beberapa lemari yang berbeda di rumah yang tidak sama. Daripada beli lagi tapi malah menambah tumpukan beban hidup yang seharusnya diminimalisir, ya kan. 

Dian Nafi dan Legenda Sastrawan Indonesia NH Dini

Dian Nafi pada Acara Kementerian Kesehatan di Hotel Horison Semarang

Setelah sukses memanfaatkan outer batik double side, dan jadi kapstok hidup di beberapa event, kali ini jadi tergelitik untuk mengorek dan menggali fashion yang lain. Sama-sama outer atau atasan luar, tapi kali ini untuk forum-forum yang lebih resmi. Pilihannya tentu saja jas. Berikut beberapa penampakannya. 

Dian Nafi di Universitas Dian Nuswantoro. 

Dian Nafi dan Hetih Rusli di Festival Literasi Taman Ismail Marzuki Jakarta

Dian Nafi dan pak Gita Wirjawan di School of Government Public Policy 

Dian Nafi di Leiden Central Belanda

Dian Nafi di Nijmegen Belanda

Dian Nafi di Boorhavelan Leiden Belanda

Dian Nafi di Radboud University Nijmegen Netherland

Dian Nafi di Seminar Penulisan Arsitektur dengan para arsitek dari beberapa kota di Indonesia

Dian Nafi bedah buku Mesir Suatu Waktu di Toko Buku Gramedia Pandanaran Semarang

 What is Meant For You

There is no need to rush. What is meant for you will always arrive on time.

You have to let go what’s not meant for you, to receive what is

what is meant for you will always feel calm & natural, not chaotic & confusing 

the best will unfold for you. what is meant for you won’t pass you by.

What is meant for you is meant for you and no one can take that away.

They can’t take away what is meant for you. Any delay is nothing but divine order. & It’s gone happen for you, one way, or the other. A way will be made out of no way, Because divine favor is real !! Let your ancestors & guides get it together for you. Trust your path.

You never have to chase who or what is meant for you. Allow things to chase you for a change.

Little by little,

Day by day.

what is meant for you

will find it's way.

what is meant for you WILL remain. stop worrying about things you can’t control or trying to always be one step ahead. 

If it’s going to happen, it’s going to happen regardless. trust the universe.

Who and what is meant for you will show up.

What is meant for you will always be yours. Allah will give it to you at the best time & at the best moment. All it takes is some patience. Allahu a'alam

Sabr sabr is the 👌 best

What is meant for you is already making a way to you

This is your sign of you have been feeling hopeless, always remember what is meant for you will never miss you, trust your journey

 do what's best for you and what is meant for your life purpose. If it don't apply, let it fly! And to the womb watchers, mind your business. Let people live and make their own choices!

With all that being said.. What is meant for you will never be toxic. Something out of reach, or hard to grasp. Don’t struggle for the untouchable, find your path rather than struggling to be apart of others who aren’t willing to do the same.

What is meant for you won’t miss you I promise but if it does , it was never meant.

You won’t miss what is meant for you.

“What is meant for you will always be yours. Allah will give it to you at the best time & at the best moment. All it takes is some patience.”

DON’T JUST DREAM ABOUT SUCCESS, WORK ON IT TO MAKE IT PART OF YOUR REALITY. 

You have access to infinite possibilities. Believe in your ability to exceed your own expectations. Trust that what’s coming for you is what is meant and best for you.

you have to let go what's not meant for you, to receive what is

What is meant for you will definitely come to you in time".

 Try to do better and try to treat others with utmost respect.

 Support others who are in the same industry as yourself!!

Remember, what is meant for you will reach you, even if it is beneath two mountains. And what is not meant for you will not reach you, even if it is between your two lips

Little by little. Day by day. What is meant for you will find its way. 

The abundance mindset is you having the best opinion of God. Scarcity mindset is undermining Him. What is meant for you will never miss you.

what is meant for you

always finds a way 

you are here 

stay the course 

born different 

you are strong 

perseverance 

People call you arrogant if you say you know your worth. They haven't learned anything yet and especially never realise how blessed they were to have you in their life.

But they had a chance to stay in it ...

What is meant for you will stay, what isn't will disappear.

Are you blocking what is meant for you?

Often when we feel good things never happen for us it is because we put up an energetic block because we don't feel like we deserve it. This is most often subconscious.

Maybe what you were dreaming to change wasn't meant for you, hence you just have to find your way. What is meant for you will come to you

What is meant for you will not pass you by. The people who are meant to be in your life will always gravitate back towards you. No matter how far they wander. Trust the timing of your life

You will never miss out on what is meant for you, even if it has to come to you in a roundabout way.

No one can stop what is meant for you. No jealousy, no envy, no evil eye, nothing can stop blessings that align with you

What is meant for you is for YOU. There is nothing anyone, other than yourself, can do to keep you from it. So what are you waiting for? Claim your inheritance and choose to walk in your gifts

affirm that what is meant for you presents itself CLEARLY in front of you. no illusions, confusions comes with what is yours!

Building the courage to go for what is truly meant for you and what is best for you. And what's meant for you would never be at the real detriment of anyone else. That's the beauty of abundance and rizq. Good character can be maintained and you still win.

Only left with a month to end the year, you don't have to be limited by time, cause a day is like a thousand years to God, and a thousand years is like a day. Stay focus on you goal and stay in your lane, what is meant for you will locate you, may God's peace be with you all.

Sometimes two people aren't compatible and what is meant for you won't pass you by. Accepting that is the peace and assurance that lies ahead

Devine timing what is meant for you will never pass you buy In'sh'Allah

What is meant for you is already yours.

Trust that what is meant for you is coming and it's going to be for you. What is not meant for you is falling apart and it's being replaced with exactly what is meant and best for you.

Nothing will mess up what is truly meant for you 

What is meant for you will not pass you by. The people who are meant to be in your life will always gravitate back towards you. No matter how far they wander trust the timing of your life. People come and go in our lives but it's the ones who make an impact on us that stick around

 Kongres Ulama Perempuan Indonesia 2 di Pesantren Hasyim Asy'ari Bangsri Jepara

Alhamdulillah selama seminggu kemarin, dian nafi berkesempatan untuk mengikuti gelaran serangkaian acara Kongres Ulama Perempuan Indonesia alias KUPI 2. Digelar tiga hari di UIN Walisongo Semarang dari 21-23 November 2022, dan tiga hari di Pondok Pesantren Hasyim Asy'ari Bangsri Jepara 24-26 November 2022. 

Alhamdulillah ketemu lagi sama mba Alissa Wahid putri Gus Dur, setelah beberapa bulan lalu bertemu pada gelaran acara Tunas Gusdurian di Surabaya. 

Baca juga rangkaian acara lannya dari Kongres Ulama Perempuan:

• Traveling ke Makam Kalinyamat, Museum Kartini dan Pantai Bandengan Jepara
• Bazaar 100 UMKM dan Pentas Seni Budaya di Lapangan Bangsri Jepara
• Dian Nafi Hasfa Institute Presentasi Paper di Mubadalah Post Graduate Forum
• International Conference the 2nd Indonesia Women Ulama Congress

Sebelum pembukaan  sudah ada acara-acara juga, seperti kunjungan napak tilas ulama perempuan Jepara,  beberapa side event lainnya, juga FGD atau forum group discussion bertempat di kompleks kawasan yang berbeda-beda. 

Acara pembukaan Kongres Ulama Perempuan Indonesia 2 berlangsung pada 24 November 2022 bakda isya. Bertempat di aula utama venue, pembukaan dihadiri oleh menteri desa, menteri pemberdayaan perempuan, menteri tenaga kerja dll.  

Tiap pagi bakda subuh, ada takhtiman quran di aula utama venue Kongres Ulama Perempuan Indonesia 2 di Pesantren Hasyim Asy'ari Bangsri Jepara. Bu Nyai Hindun Anisah sendiri yang memimpin dan membaca khataman qurannya. 

Terdapat 3 sesi dalam Kongres Ulama Perempuan Indonesia 2 ini, sesi pra musyawarah terdiri 10 panel. Sesi musyawarah terdiri 11 panel dan sesi refleksi. 

Halaqah Refleksi Paralel "Kerja-kerja Jaringan untuk membangun peradaban yang berkeadilan" diselenggarakan sebagai halaqah penutup dari seluruh rangkaian Kongres Ulama Perempuan Indonesia (KUPI) 2.

Halaqah Refleksi; Kerja2 Jaringan Komunitas dn Majlis Ta’lim. Jaringan komunitas dn majelis taklim berefleksi utk membangun peradaban yg berkeadilan sebagai rekomendasi dari KUPI. Kegiatan ini difasilitasi oleh Helmi Ali (Ketua Pengawas Rahima) dn Desti Murdijana (Justassociates)

Hasil Musyawarah Keagamaan KUPI 2 tentang Peminggiran Perempuan dalam Menjaga NKRI dari bahaya Kekerasan Atas Nama Agama menghasilkan tiga poin sikap keagamaan kupi. Satu diantaranya adlh kewajiban untuk menjaga NKRI dari Bahaya Kekerasan atas nama agama.

Hasil Musyawarah Keagamaan KUPI 2 tentang Pengelolaan Sampah utk Keberlanjutan Lingkungan Hidup dn Keselamatan Perempuan menghasilkan 3 poin sikap keagamaan kupi. 1 di antaranya adlh Semua pihak wajib mengelola sampah sesuai kemampuan dan kapasitas masing2

Hasil Musyawarah Keagamaan KUPI 2 tentang Perlindungan Perempuan Dari Bahaya Pemaksaan Perkawinan menghasilkan 3 poin sikap keagamaan kupi. 1 di antaranya adlh kewajiban dalam melakukan perlindungan terhadap perempuan dari bahaya pemaksaan perkawinan.

Hasil Musyawarah Keagamaan KUPI 2 tentang Perlindungan Jiwa Perempuan dari Bahaya Kehamilan Akibat Perkosaan menghasilkan 3 poin sikap keagamaan kupi. 1 diantaranya adalah kewajiban melindungi jiwa perempuan dari bahaya kehamilan akibat perkosaan.

Hasil Musyawarah Keagamaan KUPI 2 tentang Perlindungan Perempuan dari Bahaya P2GP tanpa Alasan Medis menghasilkan 3 poin sikap keagamaan kupi. Satu diantaranya adalah pengharaman tindakan (P2GP) tanpa alasan medis

Halaqah Refleksi; Kerja-kerja Jaringan Pesantren dan Lembaga Pendidikan (Dasar-Menengah). Dlm prosesnya, para partisipan berkumpul menjadi beberapa kelompok utk membahas pertanyaan2 refleksi, sprti implementasi fatwa KUPI I catatan kritis untuk KUPI II, hingga persiapan KUPI III

Halaqah Refleksi; Kerja-kerja Jaringan Akademisi, Peneliti, dan Pendidikan Tinggi. Difasilitatori oleh Lies Marcoes dan Faqih Abdul Kodir, Dalam prosesnya, para dibagi menjadi beberapa kelompok untuk merumuskan berbagai persoalan dan mempresentasikannya kepada forum

Halaqah Refleksi; Kerja2 Lembaga Swadaya Masyarakat. difasilitatori oleh Mira Diarsih dan Samsidar, Beberapa partisipan bercerita tentang pengalaman advokasinya. Sebagian lagi merupakan korban yang menceritakan pengalamannya terkait diskriminasi dan intoleransi yang mereka alami.

Halaqah Refleksi; Kerja-kerja Individu dan Jaringan Global. Kupi memiliki kekuatan, sumber daya dan value yang besar. Semua potensi ini dan bentuk-bentuk serupa bisa direplikasi di negara-negara lain dengan tetap memperhatikan konteks.

Acara penutupan berlangsung meriah dengan pemukulan rebana bersama-sama seluruh audience setelah pembacaan fatwa-fatwa hasil musyawarah selama Kongres Ulama Perempuan Indonesia 2 di Pesantren Hasyim Asy'ari Bangsri Jepara ini. 

Sampai jumpa di Kongres Ulama Perempuan Indonesia berikutnya. Insya Allah. 

 Mau Tak Mau Jadi Maju

Mau Tak Mau Jadi Maju. Begitulah kesanku ketika mengikuti challenge one week one post. Karena mau gak mau, meski sibuk sekalipu jad terpacu untuk menulis satu postingan blog sesuai tema yang ditentukan.

Dalam perjalanan menghandle challenge ini, aku gunakan resep dan rumus lamaku. Begiti lihat pengumuman tema challenge nya, langsung tulis saja. Gak harus di laptop. Di hape pun jadi. Gak harus di meja kerja atau ruang yang nyaman, di jalan pun jadi. Sambil naik bis, naik kereta, naik angkot, naik trans, naik krl, naik mrt. Belum dengan naik pesawat karena belakangam sejak covid ini belum bepergian dengan pesawat lagi.

Cara menulisnya juga dibikin santai, tidak ngoyo. Biasanya otak bekerja melakukan recall memory terhadap peristiwa, momen, kejadian dan cerita terkait dengan tema. Lalu tulis begitu saja. Kira-kira kalau sudah lebih dari tiga ratus kata, barulah ancang ancang membuat closing penutup tulisan.

Nah di sesi terakhir challenge inilah aku baru sadar bahwa waktu senggang sesungguhnya adalah privilege. Karena sibuk sekali satu mingguan ini, jadi aku gak sempat nulis postingan terakhir. Dan sekarang meski badan masih capek banget karena baru saja datang dari tugas satu minggu untuk kongres, aku berusaha menyelesaikan tulisan. 

Eh, kojur guys, pas tadi sudah nulis sampai selesai ternyata karena ngantuk mata merem,  jari jemari ini tahu tahu menghapus tulisan yang sudah kubuat. Dan hanya tersisa dua paragraf. Huhuhu sedih bangets.  Terpaksa sekarang nulis lagi biar selesai tugas kali ini.

Tetap semangat dong ya meski badan capek dan mata maunya merem terus, geger maunya di-luk, alias berbaring. 

Bismillah bismillah laa haula wa laa quwwata iaa billahil aliyyil adziim